Divine Thoughts
~Essentially Yours…~
“I was just curious are some people easier to read than others, and why?”
Most definitely! Those who are open to receiving personal information, believers of psychic ability and those who are not fearful of the ability are the easiest to read. These individuals allow someone like me unrestricted entrance into their life-experience. Consequently, whereas a ‘closed’ client may receive a two-sentence response, an ‘open’ client may receive a paragraph. Personally speaking, with ‘closed’ clients I relay the immediate truth of their situation; with ‘open’ clients, I’m allowed’ to go deeper to retrieve and relay more of their truth, perhaps providing more enlightenment, clarity and/or direction, therefore I do. Of course these cases are case-by-case and not a general rule-of-thumb.
In their defense, a client may be ‘closed’ unknowingly. They may think they are ready for their truth, yet their energy demonstrates otherwise. Because I read via energy, I am affected by the client’s energy; and fear is stronger energy than curiosity. This is why I make it a point to instruct clients to not pose questions whose answers they may not be able to handle.
Moreover, some process readings better than others. Some clients understand that it is not wise to force intuitive information into current consciousness. It is best to appreciatively receive the intuitive information and move forward from that point; gratitude + enlightenment = empowerment. Remember we all have free will so when getting psychic readings, nothing a psychic say is etched in stone, although some things are ‘by design’ (of God) and sure to occur.
“What is the best way to process a ‘Divine Focus Reading’?
“I am new to psychic readings. Are all psychics alike?”
**You do not have to be a client to have your issues addressed in “Essentially Yours…” Simply send me an email by Wednesday afternoon, and if I’m able, I will address it in the weekly post.**
~Essentially Yours…~
“Well, this seems like an obvious answer to me, but I’ve been wondering for a while now if what you mentioned happens when a person doesn’t heal, happens to every person that hasn’t addressed their childhood trauma?”
“Is dating ok while healing? Also, how do you know when you found the one? Soul mate/Life partner?”
Of course, why not? Life continues as one heals. Healing is simply a process that we endure in order to recoup power lost during a traumatic experience. You can’t withdraw from life as you heal from your issue(s). If you are healing from a break-up, dating is good if you are in control of your emotions. Having an active social life gives you something to do, people to meet, experiences to engage in. It can be enlightening, empowering and nurturing. You have to be the judge of your heart and determine if you are capable of dating or if you are likely to fall for the next person who shows you a little attention out of an urgent need to stop hurting.
“I am a new client of yours and am very impressed. I’ve been getting psychic readings for ten years and have never had the quality of reading that you provide, especially through email. You are very specific, direct and personable. Thank you. Is it okay to sometimes send you an email when I’m not feeling so hot to ask you what type of reading I should have or should I already know this?”
**You do not have to be a client to have your issues addressed in “Essentially Yours…” Simply send me an email by Wednesday afternoon and, if I’m able, I will address your issue in the weekly post.**
~Essentially Yours…~
Oct. 17, 2014:
“Essentially Yours…” is a weekly email in which your confusions, concerns and challenges are addressed. The Divine Intention of this email is to take the personal curiosities of one and supply enlightenment and clarity to all.
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“I had an abortion twelve years ago. I am having a hard time accepting that God will forgive me for killing a child. I didn’t have a choice. Do you think He will forgive me?”
No, I don’t think He will forgive you. I know He will. You must come to terms with your past decisions, both big and small, so as to move forward from an enlightened and empowered perspective. It must be through your personal spiritual relationship with God that you seek forgiveness and (allow yourself to) receive such.
Lately, I’ve realized that many of my clients are from religious backgrounds yet are enduring a spiritual awakening. Spiritual awakenings and religion are not bffs. A spiritual awakening is challenging enough to a healthy ego, now think how challenging it can be to one that has been taught a specific belief system? Spiritual awakenings challenge religious teachings because it bestows expansion in awareness and higher consciousness (enlightenment) upon the emerging spirit. Therefore, you will question some religious lessons, practices, processes and such. As you become curious, confused and conflicted, you are intended to become enlightened and empowered.
If you truly believe in God as the Power, Spirit, King, Universe, etc., then ask Him directly for His forgiveness. And then through your faith and spiritual relationship with Him, receive that you are forgiven.
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“I recently received a reading from you which opened my eyes to the truth of my life. I had not realized that I was living in delusion until my Spiritual Reading via Email. How can I move forward?”
From an enlightened and empowered perspective. I believe there are four areas of life: Self (relationship with Self and God), Love/Relationships, Career/Work and Finances/Income. The ‘Spiritual Reading via Email’ enlightens the client on each of those areas without questions being posed. It is an intuitive assessment of one’s life at the point in time in which they request the reading. The reading changes as the person lives for as we endure, we experience. As we experience, we learn, and grow…we can improve our lives just as we can damage our lives.
This life-assessment can be over-whelming, especially to someone who has never had a reading or who was living in delusion. It is best to digest it slowly, respecting that it is intuitive information and not conscious observation. Therefore, there is invaluable information contained within the reading…and this information may be in direct contrast to your current consciousness. Consider enlisting the aid of a close friend or family member to help you digest the reading if you are stuck. Enlightenment, while empowering, can be debilitating.
Focus on the area or areas which need the most attention; make use of the four clarifying questions so as to have intuitive information clarified and not for posing new questions – unless you fully understand your reading. Give that reading the time, energy and respect it deserves for it can be the determining factor in your ability to move forward, become successful, and/or experience fulfillment in life. Remember that we all have free will; there may be some things that you can transform into what you desire them to be for God gives all of us the power of manifestation. However, be logical, focused, confident and determined when moving from your ‘enlightened and empowered perspective’; just because you have knowledge doesn’t mean that the road ahead shall be paved. Acknowledge your Inner Strength, then let it guide your through the rest of your life.
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“Can a reading change? Example, if you read someone on a topic of finances in December and it says things are not looking that great in April and then you read them in January and their finances are looking a better.”
Of course! We all have free will and the ability to manifest. What is important to note is that I am claircognizant – I have the ability to know. Some things I relay shall definitely occur; when doing phone readings, I will usually say something like “This is going to happen…” or “This is Divine; it is meant to occur.” Being clairaudient, clairsentient and clairvoyant enables me to hear, feel and see what shall occur, based on the current energies present and/or Divine Intention. Remember, things occur by either of two methods: ‘by decision’ (your actions) or ‘by design’ (God’s will).
During readings, I feel the energy of the client and receive messages via sound, sight and feeling; all of these components are then put together to relay the truth of the client’s situation. In my readings I like to use ‘may’, ‘likely’, ‘can’ and other ‘indefinite words’ so as to [subconsciously] remind the client of their natural powers of manifestation and transformation. It is wise to pay attention to my word usage; it is deliberate. 😉
My readings are meant to empower, enlighten and assist in one’s healing; they are not intended to disempower, confuse or hinder one’s healing process.
Thank you for this question; I’m sure it has been on the minds of many.
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~Essentially Yours…~
Oct. 10, 2014:
“Essentially Yours…” is a weekly email in which your confusions, concerns and challenges are addressed. The Divine Intention of this email is to take the personal curiosities of one and supply enlightenment and clarity to all.
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“How do you heal while still interacting with the person who caused the need to heal?”
In the same way a person heals from an experience when the cause of the need to heal isn’t in their immediate environment: with dedication, persistence, confidence, patience, compassion, submission and trust.
When you need to heal from a romantic encounter, typically your ex isn’t around; thus you may feel it’s easier to heal. Out-of-sight, out-of-mind. This breeds a false sense of security, for you can endure the healing process and then hear from him/her – or see him/her – six years later and negative thoughts and/or feelings appear; which in turn means you have not healed. Back to the drawing board!
Attempting to heal from an experience while continuing to interact with the person you credit as the need for your healing is a monumental task. Truly. If you have the capability, hats off to you! #TeamYou!
Interacting with the person whom you feel caused you the need to heal is like enduring chemotherapy while smoking. Seriously. You have power in your healing. If your healing process requires that there be space between you and the other person, then you grant it such. You can’t expect for the process to be successful if you aren’t giving it a fighting chance.
For some, ‘distance’ may be no communication until he/she is ready to talk; for others, it’s limited communication while they endure their healing process. And if the pain is that intense, there may be a need for physical distance. Whatever your process requires for it to be successful should be granted to it.
At some point, you have to decide who is more important: you or the other person. At some point, you have to decide what matters most: your healing or your interaction with the person who is the influence behind your need to heal?
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“You have told me before that I am an Empath; how can I better deal with this condition. It can be annoying.”
An Empath is someone who can feel what another is feeling. You are a very sensitive being who becomes affected emotionally, mentally and/or physically by the energies of others. Many are this way, but they are usually labeled as being ‘too sensitive’, ‘bipolar’, ‘paranoid’, etc. Many Empaths are moody, anxious, introverted, insecure and over-compensating.
After you acknowledge your level of sensitivity, you must then take measures to protect yourself. Some practice visualization techniques (being surrounded by White Light) and gemstone therapy (using grounding or protective gemstones like spotted obsidian, jasper and amber) to create a ‘protective shield’ around them when in crowds, at work or engaging with difficult people. Another technique is ‘conscious assessment’. Stop in the middle of the feeling, which will appear out-of-the-blue such that you seem moody or biploar, and ask yourself, “Is this my energy?” If it is, evidence of why you should be experiencing it will appear; at that point, address it. God is speaking to you. If it is not your energy, recognize such and abandon it.
Being an Empath is a challenge. You are maneuvering through an energetically charged experience while exposed; you pick up the energetic imprints of family, friends and strangers without warning. Learn to abandon energies that are not yours by ‘conscious assessment’. Learn to protect yourself with visualization techniques and/or gemstone therapy. Become empowered; don’t be annoyed. 😉
“When you become conscious, you become responsible.”
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~Essentially Yours…~
Oct. 3, 2014:
“Essentially Yours…” is a weekly email in which your confusions, concerns and challenges are addressed. The Divine Intention of this email is to take the personal curiosities of one and supply enlightenment and clarity to all.
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“My question/concern/challenge is regarding Karma. Exactly when are my thoughts against others incurring bad Karma? I find myself wanting to see those who have done an injustice, particularly against me, reap what they’ve sewn. You’ve advised me to “Pull back” but, how do I know when I’ve crossed the line? ”
Vengeance is a natural response to a personal attack. I don’t believe Karma responds to an energy that is honest to the individual given the circumstances for we are spiritual energy in physical form; therefore as humans, we are subject to human weaknesses. I believe Karma, which in this context is ‘the genuine energy consciously projected to acquire a specific goal’, does respond to the focused energy that is projected on a continuous and continual basis. While we are to be honest in our emotional reactions, we shan’t become vengeful – full of vengeance.Wanting to do harm to another and planning their demise is self-generated dark energy that affects the ‘manufacturer’ twice as heavily as it does the recipient of their focus. Whether you plan your revenge or fervently wish for their comeuppance, you are manufacturing and harboring toxic energy. And all energy created in the body is of the body.
We all shall reap what we’ve sewn; your impassioned desire for that to occur is redundant and self-sabotaging.
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“I don’t know if this is a suitable topic but here goes: What is the best way to process my readings from you? Sometimes everything is obvious; sometimes things materialize later; and sometimes I’m just lost. I know you have a gift because this has been proven. I just want to become able to take advantage of all of the information you relay to me, even all of the emails. What am I doing wrong?”
This is a ‘suitable’ topic for any curiosity, challenge, or concern that you have I will address. And it is a great question!
I am a Spiritual Intuitive – my readings are ‘spirit-to-spirit conversations’; I am speaking to your spirit. When the emails or readings contain information that touches your soul, your spirit has received the communication. When the emails or readings miss the mark, you may find yourself confused. No worries! Some information you will get in real time; some will come later. It’s about being receptive to the information.
Also, the type of reading received can bear weight on one’s level of understanding. If you ask specific questions, it’s easier to digest the reading because the questions and answers are consciously connected – whether the responses are appealing or not. You have something conscious to connect to something intuitive – you can ‘see how such things can occur’. Consequently, it’s easier to process the reading.
If you are asking for ‘Intuitive Guidance’ (from either of the Spiritual Readings, Intuitive Guidance Readings, or Area-of-Concern Readings), you are more likely to get information that doesn’t fit within your current consciousness. And you making it fit will only make you crazy! It’s like forcing a piece into a puzzle; it just doesn’t fit what is already there. ‘Intuitive Guidance’ is information needed, not necessarily information desired. There are things in your life (either known by you or unknown to you) to occur that shall precipitate what has been relayed. The wise thing to do is to ask probing questions, or simply prepare for the changes.
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“‘Spiritual Awakening’ and ‘Spiritual Journey’…what’s the difference? And how can I control this damn ego? LOL!!”
I refer to a ‘spiritual awakening’ as the moment when one’s spirit becomes aware of the life the ego has created. It is a ‘wake-up call’. It usually is precipitated by the sudden feelings of uneasiness (in one’s own skin), spiritual curiosity (wanting to know God, ‘Who is God?’), and wanting to know your purpose in life (‘What is my soul purpose?’). I refer to a ‘spiritual journey’ as the process during which the spirit is re-birthed and becomes acclimated to the life that the ego has created. It not only emerges, but becomes involved in those activities that nurture and guide its growth and survival. Understand that the spirit and ego are of one body; thus this is you, as spirit, indulging in activities that are different from those engaged in by the ego.
You don’t want to control your ego; you want to heal it. The ego is a magnificent thing! It has brought you to this point in your life, good or bad, you’re alive! And as it is the result of our experiences, and societal and environmental influences, it has endured many types of situations. If the majority of your childhood experiences were negative, your ego is likely emotionally and/or psychologically damaged. However, other conditions can occur which will negatively affect one’s ego. Truly, it has to be cleansed of the negative experiences (negative energy) that it has endured. Empower it via healing! Enable it to become the power it was meant to be. Once it is healed, it can better acquaint itself with the spirit.
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~Essentially Yours…~
Sept. 26, 2014:
“Essentially Yours…” is a weekly email in which your confusions, concerns and challenges are addressed. The Divine Intention of this email is to take the personal curiosities of one and supply enlightenment and clarity to all.
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“How do you identify Universal signs?”
The ability to identify Universal signs does not require a specific gift or strength; it only requires faith (in God), trust (in Self’s ability to interpret the information), and submission (to the delicate process of Divine interpretation).
Universal Signs (Signs from God) come in the form of encounters, ideas, experiences, thoughts and feelings. They are always timely and always empowering. Yet, for those ignorant of the fact that God does directly communicate with us, these signs often go unnoticed…they blend in with the ho-hum of life, appearing to be irony when they are essentially Divine.
Universal Signs can be easily identified by one who is faithful, trusting and
submissive. Additionally, one has to be alert, open-minded and receptive so as to become able to process the information (the Universal Signs) in real time. Lastly, they have to be honest. Be aware of what you are asking God for, whether during prayer or via your own ‘impassioned’ feelings, thoughts, and ideas. Universal Signs, which are meant to guide, show support, redirect, enlighten and clarify, will appear in the aforementioned ways as a direct response to your expressed needs and, in some cases, wants. Becoming sensitive to this ‘Divine Communication’ is both empowering and nourishing.
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“I find that being patient and compassionate during the healing process is difficult. I see the old feelings come up, I recognize what it is but sometimes I don’t know what my next step in dealing with those negative feelings.”
Healing requires patience and compassion. You are asking your Self to become anew; to erase the damage that was done to it. Self is like, “WTH? We’ve made it through the war, why are you choosing to revisit the devastation?” However, it is through healing that we are able to recoup the power lost during the initial challenging experience. ‘Old feelings’ are to come up as they are attached to the experience that you are revisiting during the healing process. They shall resurface as often as they need to until they cannot. They cannot once they have been distinguished. They become distinguished when you heal.
When ‘old feelings’ arise, you are to address them. When these same feelings arose in the past – when you weren’t healing or while enduring the experience – you did nothing about them. You ignored them; you shoved them into the pit of your soul. Consequently, they meshed with the delicate fibers of your being and subsequently influenced negative behaviors, feelings, actions, perceptions and thought processes. During the healing process, you are paying attention to these ‘old feelings’; you are addressing them; you are resolving them.
It is wise to talk yourself through those ‘old feelings’ which are negative and detrimental to your process. They have arisen so that you can take notice…take notice. You want to understand what prompted those feelings, what are they trying to relay to you about the experience and/or yourself, are they even worth entertaining, and so forth. Our feelings are not just reactions to stimuli; they are also triggers of another matter to be acknowledged. As you heal, become acquainted with your real Self.
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“You talk about ‘healing the Inner Child’; how does one do that?”
Your ‘Inner Child’ represents the first personality formed by you. In Psychology it is taught that ‘the child is the father of the man’; what this means is that the person’s personality – basic psychological and emotional make-up – is formed by the age of five years. Therefore, that ‘development’ has become a viable component to whom we shall become as adults.
The experiences that occur during such an important developmental period in our lives undoubtedly leave imprints upon ourselves. Whether they are good or bad, they will leave impressions that follow us throughout our life-experience. For those who experience abuse of any sort or who were not nurtured according to their spiritual needs (each of us require nurturing, some more than others), these experiences attach themselves to the subconscious mind because the conscious mind cannot process what is occurring. Thus we find years later that we can’t engage in healthy romantic relationships because of something our Inner Child experienced and filed away, never processing the details of said experience because it was unable to do so. As adults, we may find that we suffer from debilitating fear, insecurity, distrust and self-loathing due to early childhood experiences that may be known or unknown to us. Therefore it is during our adulthood that we must heal from our childhood.
To heal your Inner Child, you must first acknowledge that he/she exists – for regardless of what age you are, your Inner Child still remains. Through meditation, counseling/therapy, and/or intuitive guidance (either via self or an intuitive) one is able to revisit their childhood to note the experiences in which their Inner Child became damaged, wounded or broken. It is then at this age that your world became formed for your mind and heart stopped functioning in the way that it should, to function according to its damage, wounding or breakage.
Write it out! Writing is not only therapeutic, it is valuable tool in which we can note our growth – “If one does not note their growth, they disregard their progress.” Return to that age at which you remember or have evidence of major life-changes for these likely precipitate the psychological and emotional damage from which you need to heal. Write a letter from that child (age 5, 7, 8, 12, etc.) to the adult you’ve become. Allow him/her to express what they were feeling at the time they were hurting, breaking, and/or transforming. Allow yourself to remember the experience…allow your Inner Child the opportunity to express Itself, to reach for the savior that never came…and allow your Adult Self to be that savior.
After reading the letter(s) from your Inner Child, respond in writing, acknowledging what he/she is feeling (has felt)…become the responsible adult that should have been their for that vulnerable child. You have experienced much since then; you are better able to explain, understand, support and calm the Inner Child whose voice went unheard. As you would do for your own child, do the same for your Inner Child.
Another tool is to have a photo of yourself as a child, preferably one that was taken around the time your Inner Child became damaged, broken or wounded, to focus on as you consciously assist in Its healing. Having a visual representation of your traumatized self aids in bringing it (the trauma) back into your reality for you are no longer relying on the energy of memories and/or pain as a focal point. Additionally, return to childhood hobbies in an effort to reunite with your Inner Child, who once engaged in those same hobbies. This exercise can bring about a feeling of deja vu, which is powerful in healing from a past issue, for you are able to return (energetically) to that specific moment-in-time. Both the photo and the hobbies can serve as triggers of the actual experience(s); therefore make sure that you have a support group in place.
In any way that you can reconnect with your Inner Child, do so. You owe it to him/her to heal from the devastation that such an innocent and pure energy had to endure. If you want your adult self to thrive, your Inner Child must be empowered.
“If you want to understand the Adult you’ve become, communicate with the Inner Child you’ve abandoned.”
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~Essentially Yours…~
Sept. 19, 2014:
“Essentially Yours…” is a weekly email in which your confusions, concerns and challenges are addressed. The Divine Intention of this email is to take the personal curiosities of one and supply enlightenment and clarity to all.
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“I was talking to a friend and I asked her what she wanted in life and she said she just wanted to be happy. I didn’t understand, you can’t just ‘be happy’; you have to do things, right?”
Happiness is an euphoric state of being. It includes a collection of ‘happy moments’. A person who is viewed as having a ‘happy life’ is truly just an individual who seems to have more ‘happy moments’ than ‘unhappy moments,’ for we all have them. I would ask your friend what makes her happy? For it is the completion of these things that would result in happiness, right? Becoming conscious of what makes us happy and frequently including these things in our daily lives empowers us to be happy and indulge in happiness.
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“Since embarking on my spiritual journey, I’m seeing things differently.”
Of course you are! You are seeing life through spiritual eyes! You see, there is a difference between experiencing a spiritual awakening and enduring a spiritual journey. When one’s spirit awakens, it becomes aware of the life the ego created while unconsciously becoming aware of itself. A person may feel out-of-sorts, uncomfortable in their own skin, confused, frustrated for no reason, anxious, apathetic, moody or depressed. As one endures a spiritual journey, they consciously choose to bring spirit to the forefront of the life the ego created. They make a commitment to introducing their spirit into the world their ego created, partnering with the ego to make the necessary changes for its Highest Good. As a ‘spiritual adventurer’, you shall experience increased awareness, deeper consciousness, enhanced respect for nature and life, and stronger sensitivity towards humanity.
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“I’m scared to heal. I know I need to and I feel that I can, but I am scared to start the process. Is that crazy?”
No it’s not. When you choose to heal from emotional or psychological trauma, it is wise to make a conscious decision to do so. The healing process is a challenging one for it requires confidence, persistence, patience, compassion, discipline, forgiveness, submission and acceptance. You have to be bold and ready to heal. You need a support group, a strong core and outlets. Life doesn’t stop while you heal; you have to maintain your position in life, family, work and social circles. You have to maintain focus upon professional and practical obligations.
Many of us need to heal; all of us won’t heal. Healing is a choice and a gift.
Your fear is valid, your need acknowledged and your belief supported; yet your insanity is not true. You are simply a human being cautious about re-experiencing the devastating moments that has led you to this crucial point. That’s all. 🙂
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“I want to die.”
I respect your desire, yet I would ask ‘Why?’ I believe there are two instances when death seems a ‘natural preference’ to life. One instance is when one is hurting so incredibly that he/she would rather not live so as to save themselves from pain.Therefore, they don’t really want to die, they want to heal, yet may not understand that subconscious desire due to their conscious pain.
Another instance is when one’s soul is not ready for their life-experience. I believe, spiritually, that this is why some babies are stillborn – their souls do not want to experience life in physical form at that specific time. Moreover, I believe, aside from medical issues, that those with chronic depression have souls that are not ready for their life-experiences. Their sadness, feelings of unworthiness, inadequacy and not fitting in, and other heavy negative emotion is due to the soul feeling ‘out of place’ and ‘incomplete’. Just as a new soul can choose to abandon its physical body, so too can a more mature soul.
And so I ask: are you chronically depressed (medically speaking) and in need of medication or are you hurting and need to heal?
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What is a ‘Spirit Guide’?
The following information was received via channeling. Receive in Truth, Love and Light.
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What is a ‘Spirit Guide’?
A Spirit Guide is a spirit who God assigns to assist you during your life-experience. Unlike your Guardian Angels who are with you before birth, they become assigned to you by age five. As you age and endure various experiences, they become stronger in influence.
Who are the Spirit Guides’?
Spirit Guides are spiritual energies that serve God in direct relation to mankind. They have endured their own respective life-experiences, are connected to you via specific mental and/or emotional characteristics, and are responsible for assisting you in discovering your inner strength and living your full potential. (more…)
Releasing Insecure Energy
Insecure energy is a powerful current of emotion that is rooted in prior negative experiences. It can attack more than one area of our lives, thus it appears in many different forms. You can be insecure about your appearance, your intellectual capabilities, your financial status, your material possessions, your feelings, your thoughts, etc. Many people have insecure energy running through their beings. This is normal. It can be in various areas of their lives, yet it’s at a functional level – meaning it’s not excessive, controlling to the point that it’s negatively interfering in their life-experiences. But then there are those who are controlled by their insecurities. These individuals alter their natural way of being to match the behavior that insecure energy manifests. (more…)
Setting Sail – Lifting the Anchor of Heartbreak
It’s over. The relationship that once inspired you to live, thrive, succeed and explore has ended. You’ve tried to make it work. You read the books…you took the advice…you changed your physical self…hell you even smiled at his mother during times when you felt like cursing her out! Yet it’s over. You feel devastated and alone. Your heart aches; your body is weak; and your mind is cluttered with questions (“What did I do wrong?” “Why did this happen to me?” “What am I going to do now?”). (more…)
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