~Essentially Yours…~
Oct. 24, 2014
“Essentially Yours” is a weekly email in which your confusions, concerns and challenges are addressed. The Divine Intention of this email is to take the personal curiosities of one and supply enlightenment and clarity to all.
“Well, this seems like an obvious answer to me, but I’ve been wondering for a while now if what you mentioned happens when a person doesn’t heal, happens to every person that hasn’t addressed their childhood trauma?”
Healing is a choice. When you become aware of an experience that has caused behaviors that are detrimental to your fulfillment, then you need to heal from that experience. If you can’t remember the experience, yet still acknowledge behaviors that are detrimental to your fulfillment, then you need to resolve those behaviors. As previously mentioned, sometimes we can’t remember the experience that caused the behavior; this is okay for it may be the mind protecting itself against the memory. One shouldn’t try to delve further if there is such a mental block without the assistance of a professional; in the least, a dependable support group in place.
Regarding what happens when a person doesn’t heal, well that depends on the person’s level of consciousness. If a person is aware that they need to heal from specific trauma and choose not to, the likelihood of them living a fulfilling life is low for they are operating with less personal power (healing recoups power lost). If a person is unaware that they need to heal from specific trauma – for ignorance truly is bliss – then they won’t. They will continue navigating through their life-experience in the same manner, reaping the same results.
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“Is dating ok while healing? Also, how do you know when you found the one? Soul mate/Life partner?”
Of course, why not? Life continues as one heals. Healing is simply a process that we endure in order to recoup power lost during a traumatic experience. You can’t withdraw from life as you heal from your issue(s). If you are healing from a break-up, dating is good if you are in control of your emotions. Having an active social life gives you something to do, people to meet, experiences to engage in. It can be enlightening, empowering and nurturing. You have to be the judge of your heart and determine if you are capable of dating or if you are likely to fall for the next person who shows you a little attention out of an urgent need to stop hurting.
I have no idea who ‘the one’ is. And you’ve found a life-partner once the other person agrees to be in a relationship with you. Soul mates fill various roles; a big misconception is that soul mates are romantic complements to our emotional needs. While a soul mate may also be a romantic partner, he/she enters our lives for various reasons, i.e, for karmic purposes, to accomplish a specific goal together, or to finish unfinished business.A soul mate can be a family member, a romantic partner, a best friend, a supervisor, a sibling, a cousin, etc. Their purpose is Divine; their relationship with you is circumstantial.
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“I am a new client of yours and am very impressed. I’ve been getting psychic readings for ten years and have never had the quality of reading that you provide, especially through email. You are very specific, direct and personable. Thank you. Is it okay to sometimes send you an email when I’m not feeling so hot to ask you what type of reading I should have or should I already know this?”
Firstly, thank you for your opinion; I greatly appreciate it and the feedback. 🙂
Sure, you can send me an email to request that I suggest a reading for you. I will ask if you have direct questions to see if that’s the route we should take, or if you’d like, I could simply connect to your energy to see where you should become enlightened.
**You do not have to be a client to have your issues addressed in “Essentially Yours…” Simply send me an email by Wednesday afternoon and, if I’m able, I will address your issue in the weekly post.**
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